I've spent many years getting just "close enough" to the people in my life. I'd say I've gotten pretty good at letting people see enough of me to have them believe we are close but far enough away that I don't feel vulnerable. Well that's all about to change. I wish I could say it's by revelation of healthier living but unfortunately this isn't my choice. I'm about to move back  in with my parents after not having lived with them for over a decade. My husband got laid off and we have nowhere else to go. This is an uncertain time in my life-both financially and relationally. Not only will we be living with my parents but my ailing grandparents will be moving in at the same time. Change is imminent whether it's asked for or not.